Thursday 17 January 2013

'Why men hate going to church' - review




I chose this book to read worried that maybe it wasn't for me (being a woman) but I was wrong. It’s really a book for everyone. I was hoping it might be helpful for me as a wife and mum of three boys and I was right.

David Murrow has written ‘Why men hate going to church’ to address the glaring problem in churches all over the world today; women outnumber (sometimes by huge proportions) the men. His first section deals with this issue, describing the problem and defining exactly why it’s a problem.

Part 2 (the best part in a book for me) analyses church history (going as far back as the industrial revolution) and church culture. Murrow demonstrates why and how the church is slowly but surely become more for women, more about women, and more enjoyable for women.

Part three gives us plenty of strategies for what to actually do about this problem. Murrow does a great job of reassuring his readers that it is possible and a lot of his suggestions are quite simple; they just require some intention to carry out. One of the highlights for me was chapter 20 when Murrow says that the willingness of women to crossover to a man’s role is important. For example, many women would happily attend a DIY workshop at a hardware store or break into a male dominated career but most men could not tolerate attending a knitting class or breaking into the nursing profession! Because of the fact that women can ‘do’ masculine, Murrow asserts that our churches should ditch the feminine aspects of our worship and embrace the masculine.

I love this book. I especially loved that dissection of church history from a gender specific point of view.  I would recommend this to any Christian who wants to see the men in their life follow Christ. I believe it is especially important for church leaders and women to understand the concepts in this book. It is through them that the church can become more effective in reaching men. Five stars from me.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com <http://BookSneeze®.com> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Wednesday 8 August 2012

'Beauty for Ashes' - review



'Beauty for Ashes', by Dorothy Love, tells the story of Carrie, a woman living in post-Civil War Tennessee. Carrie has big adjustments to make in her life when her beloved brother Henry marries. He brings his wife and her 2 sons to the home that he and Carrie had previously shared since the death of their parents. Of course, the main plot of the book revolves around the handsome stranger, Griff Ruttledge, who comes to town. Carrie somehow falls in love with Griff almost as soon as they've met, despite Carrie having a long-running 'understanding' with the local bookstore owner. 

I found this book a little sweet and charming, but I have to say that I was not excited by the quality of writing. I found the character development lacking, the plot lines predictable and unbelievable, and even the mentions of Carrie's faith in God lacklustre and uninspiring. If you're someone who loves a good romance novel for the 'happily ever after' at the end, you may enjoy this book. However, for me, I appreciate exceptional writing in any genre more than the happy ending in a romance novel, so 'Beauty for Ashes' didn't really grab me. 

Another comment I'd like to make is about historical fiction. Often I enjoy an historical romance novel, even just for the fact that I learn a little more of the era and get a feel for the atmosphere of the time. 'Beauty for Ashes' didn't really teach me much at all. Maybe because I'm an Aussie I don't have enough prior knowledge about the civil war in general...but it's hard to really lose yourself in a book when you can't get a feel for the time and place of the story. 

I would rate 'Beauty for Ashes' 2 out of 5 stars. Despite its shortcomings, I still managed to get to the end OK, so it deserves more than 1 star. 

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com <http://BookSneeze®.com> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”


Friday 13 January 2012

"my seventh monsoon"

Naomi Reed is a physiotherapist/missionary turned author.  "my seventh monsoon" is the story of her and her family's missionary journey. She describes a little of her childhood, and conversion to christianity, and the events the led her and her husband to be serving as missionaries in Nepal with International Nepal Fellowship.  The book also describes an extended furlough period, where they dealt together with multiple pregnancy losses, the potentially fatal health problems of her husband, and the accident that crippled her father. After this time, and with 3 children in tow, they ended up in Nepal for a further term, when she clocks up monsoon number seven.

I found this book to be quite unlike any missionary biography I had read to date.  Reed describes many of events and circumstances that they went through, but not in the standard 'show and tell' manner that many of this style of biography use.  She uses the Ecclesiastes passage about seasons to interpret the many things that they experienced.  She then draws parallels that any reader could relate to and learn from; observations about how we all go through 'seasons' in our relationship with God.

I enjoyed this book immensely.  Reed's way of putting words together to evoke powerful images and emotions, together with her explorations of season of faith, made for an excellent read.  I hope to read the sequel "No Ordinary View" very soon!

Tuesday 10 January 2012

"I am David"

 I picked up this one, mainly because I have seen it used in the library at school - for the Grade 6's reading list, I think. 

"I am David", written by Anne Holm, tells the story of a boy who escapes from a war time camp.  He has no memories of the outside world, so must learn many new things while he fends for himself as he makes his way through much of Europe.

I found the internal monologue of David to be really fascinating.  The author has done a wonderful job of articulating some very profound thoughts from David that help him to decide on his actions.  He thinks through things like "What makes a person truly free?" and "In what way am I responsible for my own action?"  Holm still gives these thought processes with a child-like quality, which is quite enchanting to read. 

I would gauge the book ideally to be for an audience of 9 to 13 years old.  Of course, not only that age, I'm in my 30's and I enjoyed a great deal. I must say, I found the lack of details [we are never told where the camp was] to be a little frustrating.  And the plausibility stretched a little thin in places [he travels through Greece, Italy, Switzerland, Germany and Denmark, but never a single mention of the war!].  But I would think to a child audience, this lack of context would not be very worrying.

I will certainly be strongly encouraging my kids to read this, I think it's a great one for them.

Monday 2 January 2012

"Between Sundays"


I'm not sure just how to sum up my impressions of "Between Sundays".  On the one hand it had so many plot cliches, really I could predict much of the ending after just reading the blurb.  And because I am an Aussie, all the football references and the whole NFL culture was really wasted on me.  

But then again, Karen Kingsbury's quality writing kept me wanting to get to the end.  So much so that I locked myself in my room to finish the final few chapters.  I would compare the experience to watching a sweet romance movie - even though you know how it's going to end, it's still pleasant enough to finish it anyway! 

I have enjoyed my little Kingsbury fest, but I will be happy to move on to something new next.

Thursday 29 December 2011

"Ocean's Apart"

This is not the first Karen Kingsbury novel I've read, so I was anticipating a pleasant and easy read - just how it turned out.

"Ocean's Apart" tells the story of Connor Evans, airline pilot, and his family.  A woman he had a one night stand with years ago dies in a plane crash, and the novel tells of the events that follow as he has to take responsibility for his actions.  He meets and quickly adores the son he never knew about, and in typical Kingsbury style, his family eventually forgives him and adopts the boy.

Despite predicting the ending from quite early on in the piece, this was still an enjoyable read.  Nothing genius about the plot, but the writing is engaging enough to keep you wanting to continue.  Great for relaxing over the Christmas holiday!

Thursday 3 November 2011

“The book that made your world”


“The book that made your world”, by Vishal Mangalwadi, describes how the bible and its values have shaped the way we see our world today.  It is thoughtful, discussing the more profound values in any culture, for example, what characteristics make a “hero”, views on education, views on truth and being, and the use and value of  literature.  I really liked and learnt from Mangalwadi’s long-term view of history, going back to the middles ages and earlier, to really get a broad overview of how today came to be as it is.  Mangalwadi also writes from an Indian perspective, giving examples from India’s past that underscore his point.

I have to be honest and admit that reading this book was a struggle at times.  It was very long, with quite complex ideas presented.  To me, it had the tone of a very scholarly discussion, more of a textbook that one might refer to when writing a university paper.  I felt that if I had a little more knowledge of church history or Indian culture I would have ploughed through it a little easier.  I am also really not in a stage of life to be reading scholarly tomes; I need a quick easy read, so this one was just not right for me.

Despite this book not being suited to my preferences, I still give it 4 stars for being a well written and insightful read. I would recommend it to confident and experienced readers who love an intellectual discussion.

The complimentary copy of this book was provided to me by the Thomas Nelson Booksneeze program in exchange for an impartial review.